With the recent crisis facing Puerto Rico in the wake of Hurricane Maria, I can’t help but feel devastated. I have spent the last week weeping every day as the situation seems to continue getting worse for 3.5 million Boricuas without food, water, and electricity, which has led to desperation and even death. It is always tragic when a disaster like this strikes, but this one hits home for me. I was raised among Puerto Rican culture and have visited the island countless times. So truly Puerto Rico is simply a part of who I am. Even after all my travels, I proudly call it my favorite place on earth.
As I remained glued to news stories and accounts from loved ones on Puerto Rico, I was also haunted by the vivid memories I have from how the island once was.
There are many general beliefs that people have about the magical time known as your 20’s. Most of them equate to it being the most important decade, where every decision you make will impact the rest of your life and define who you are. If that is true, everyone should spend the precious years of their 20’s wisely.
I am a firm believer that everyone is different and each of us has a unique path and timeline for our lives. There is no cookie cutter shape of how your life should be, no matter how much society tries to convince you otherwise. Many people feel pressure to meet certain milestones by the time they hit 30, but to me, there is really only one thing that is true about this defining decade.
Anyone who knows me know how obsessed I am with travel. Over the years, it has been the greatest teacher I could ever ask for. I not only learned about the world and other cultures, but I learned a ton about myself along the way (especially via solo travel). However, I will admit that many of these lessons were pretty surprising and completely unexpected. Here is a list of the eight most important and surprising things travel taught me over the years. Enjoy!